if its any consilation. You are not alone. July 23. I brought both my folks by ambulance to emerg. Within 12 hours I was told mom was terminal (she passed in 33 days) and I would be instant primary caregiver to my father. He spent 12 days in hospital. All while I had to pack their apt. Sell their furniture,sell mine. Find a renovator for my basement. Have my renovator take off 90% finished with my money and never return and then plan moms cremation, look after dad, all while grieving from loss of my dog beginning of summer and my son ran off....and I am sick myself.
pal you are not alone.
Power of prayer....faith helped me get through this and amazing wife. Incredible friends.